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Can You Love Someone New And Still Love Your Ex?

Hey everyone, Eli Schostak here, your friendly neighborhood Relationship Coach. Today, I'm diving into a topic that's close to many of our hearts: love, loss, and moving on. Specifically, we're talking about whether you can love someone new while still holding onto feelings for your ex.

Let's face it, breakups are messy. Our brains get tangled in knots of blame, confusion, and, yes, even lingering love. Society tells us that love is a finite resource, reserved for "the one." But what happens when that one doesn't work out? Are we doomed to forever pine for the past, unable to open our hearts to new possibilities?

Absolutely not! Here's the truth bomb: loving someone doesn't mean you have to be with them. You can cherish the memories, acknowledge the good times, and even still hold onto feelings of love for your ex, all while building a beautiful, fulfilling relationship with someone new.

Think of it like this: love isn't a zero-sum game. You're not taking away from your current partner by acknowledging your past. In fact, being honest about your emotions can strengthen your new relationship by fostering trust and open communication.

But here's the key: loving someone and relating well to them are two different things. Just because you have feelings for your ex doesn't mean you should be together. Sometimes, love isn't enough. Maybe you grew apart, had incompatible goals, or simply realized you weren't a good fit.

That's where my program, Find The Right 1, comes in. It's designed to help you untangle those messy knots in your brain, understand the difference between love and compatibility, and finally break free from the cycle of unhealthy relationships.

One of my recent clients, who joined the program just six weeks ago, is a perfect example. She was single, unhappy, and stuck in a rut. But with dedication and hard work, she used the program's tools to let go of the past, embrace her worth, and attract a truly amazing partner.

So, if you're struggling with lingering feelings for your ex, remember this: you are not alone. And you don't have to suffer in silence. There is hope, and there is love waiting for you.

If you're ready to ditch the drama and find your happily ever after, I invite you to join me in Find The Right 1. I'll be your guide on this journey of self-discovery and love.

And hey, if you're still not convinced, I offer a free strategy session where we can chat about your specific situation. No pressure, just honest advice from a guy who's been there and helped countless others find their way through the love maze.

Let's make this your year to find the love you deserve!

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